I have to, my friend. The Missus is from New Joisey.
Thanks, Marty.
Now I understand. I'm more familiar with "to suck up" meaning to be extra friendly in order to gain an advantage.
Oh Terry my friend, i wasn't picking on the American people in general mate though it may have sounded the opposite, I was refering to the way of life that has stamped itself on the world ` East West` divide...We here in Britain have had the North South divide since the Romans left us all in it
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and now we are plagued with the European `union`
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?
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....But we on ship sim have a majority union of good common sense and to me it is a much needed therapy to out do any know medical treatment
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You Terry have made me now realise that I have been `sucking up`to gain advantage all my married life mate
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and by your post it sounds like you are the master
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any futher tips will be very much appreciated by all your ship mates. Marty has been on the wrong tack all these years, I wish him well on his recovery from sore lips
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.. good sailing guys.. regards to all