Hey Paul,
I understand, but as you were asked in a more friendly matter allready before, the one involved just meant to stress the importance of taking his advice this time. Don't take it all too personal. (it certainly has nothing to do with grammar or spelling btw)
If people don't agree on something here, that's a pity, but don't send the same arguement over to them in a PM after they ask you to drop the matter. I do not know what you wrote, but offence was taken, in which case an apology was in order.
If something winds you up, take a deep breath, open some other website or something, and come back a bit later when you're chilled out. That's what I do too if something offends me. On a forum there's bound to be arguements or disagreements, but they are only words, in the end.
And if someone - like in your case - is told to be a bit more specific about his posting, it's mostly in the best interest of the overall picture. In case of posting answers to people's problems, you always have to look at it from the perspective of the person with the problem, for example. Ask yourself if your answer is really going to help, or if it will perhaps make the topic unnecessarily full or complex. That often happens when 3 or 4 people give half answers, and it can confuse the person in need of help.
You cannot be right all the time, no one is, that's for sure. But just ask yourself that question.. does it help? Does it contribute? If you're not sure, think about skipping it.
You are not expected to be 100% on topic everywhere all the time and not expected to have all the answers, but try to make your posts worthwhile, and there's no one who will say anything negative about it, easy as that mate.
Regards,
Fred