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kevin1gamer

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What did I do wrong?
« on: January 04, 2010, 02:13:29 »

I was talking to a friend of mine on Facebook, when my computer started going extremely slow, and so I told her brb, and I came back a minute later, but she was gone. She has a crush on me (and I kind of like her back, but I'm also kinda recovering from a previous relationship with someone else, and I'm waiting for the right time to tell her that I like her back and/or ask her out) and has flirted with me a few times before. I don't know why she left and said "yeah..". I think she may have misinterpreted me leaving temporarily as me not wanting to talk to her (as well as me taking two minutes to reply when she said "hi", but that was because I was playing Modern Warfare 2 and didn't look at my computer monitor until that time; she also sent that three line message almost a second after I said "hi" back, implying that she didn't think I would reply). She hasn't gotten on since she logged out while I was restarting Mozilla Firefox, I did however post a message on her wall saying "back". I restarted Firefox so I could listen and help her (it was like so slow for some reason, it took like 30 seconds just to recognize a click, and the cursor was jumping around all crazy-like). Here is how the conversation went, what do you make of it?


Her (2:04pm)
"hi"

Me (2:06pm)
"hi"

Her (2:06pm)
"fine nevermind i dont wanna talk to you
okay my bad
whats up??"

Me (2:07pm)
"?
oh nm
What was that about?"

Her (2:07pm)
"nevermind
nothing
im freaken up set"

Her (2:08pm)
"cuz of my freaken best friend"

Me (2:09pm)
"What did she do?"

Her (2:10pm)
"i told her that she was going to get hurt and she did"

Me (2:10pm)
"What happened to her?"

Her (2:11pm)
"he broke up with her.."

Me (2:11pm)
"o
heyt im gonna brb my computer is extremely slow"

Her (2:11pm)
"yeah.."

System Message (2:12pm)
"*her name* is offline."
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Capt. Matt

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #1 on: January 04, 2010, 02:17:37 »

So you want to know what to say to her or why your computer was going crazy?  :P
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Stuart2007

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #2 on: January 04, 2010, 07:30:36 »

Your internet connection started going very slow... and when you came back, she'd gone...

1) Perhaps she got bored waiting for you to come back
2) Perhaps she thought you had gone and is asking equally unusual questions to her friends about you
3) She gave up on the slow internet connection

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Agent|Austin

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2010, 08:20:54 »

Perhaps she just doesn't like you at the level you do..
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McGherkin

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #4 on: January 04, 2010, 08:29:03 »

We need a Ship Sim Agony Aunt now...

I think she just went offline, but couldn't say goodbye because you had gone.

That or someone turned her modem/wifi router off. Which happens to me a lot.
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Stuart2007

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2010, 09:20:18 »

Kevin,

I sometimes get accused of being too blunt, but on this occasion I beg your forgiveness:


Spoke on Facebook?

Have you tried speaking in person? if your profile is accurate you are 17- perhaps at 17 you should be considering talking to her directly not on facebook (even video-conference/skpye if you live apart).

For starters, you can gauge people and their response a lot quicker than by simple ASCII text! No amount of 'emoticons' will convey as much meaning and feedback as face to face conversation. Trust me on this- you will never get anywhere by hiding behind a computer screen.
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The Ferry Man

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #6 on: January 04, 2010, 12:10:51 »

She had better things to do...

those 3 minutes can really drag...
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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #7 on: January 04, 2010, 18:57:38 »

Me (2:11pm)
"o"

Here you degraded yourself to the friendzone. Pay sincere interest in her, instead of just saying "o"  :doh:

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The Ferry Man

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #8 on: January 04, 2010, 19:03:46 »

I just want to know what a group of Ship Enthusiasts have to do with this subject...
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McGherkin

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #9 on: January 04, 2010, 19:05:09 »

I just want to know what a group of Ship Enthusiasts have to do with this subject...

SS Agony Aunt...
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The Ferry Man

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #10 on: January 04, 2010, 19:05:55 »

SS Agony Aunt...

So problems with your life - look to the Ship Simmers for Advice...

Maybe we should get a Column in the Magazine...
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McGherkin

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Re: What did I do wrong?
« Reply #11 on: January 04, 2010, 19:07:18 »

 !:)

I was thinking that...


EDIT:

Her (2:06pm)
"fine nevermind i dont wanna talk to you

I think we have a breakthrough...
« Last Edit: January 04, 2010, 19:09:22 by McGherkin »
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