Well Paul, I could argue back at that by saying play single-player, and every 20 minutes or so, pause, press the windows key, and check msn. I'm not being a sod by the way, just proving my point.
Orcades, you say the approach/departure is the best bit, I agree. Shipsim's collision physics are a little touchy, so unless damage is off, it's very tricky to undertake a complicated docking move. But going back to approach/departure, Marseilles has the massive dock entrance, yet no one ever allows tugs to help with that.
To reiterate the fact that I'm not moaning about nothing, I'll list the tows I've had altogether online.
First 2 weeks: Destrega as the Vermaas, me as the small tug.
Just after New Horizons came out: Sadsid let me try to dock his Latitude at Fawley, I was the Bugiser.
In the same session, I tied onto some guy's Agile Solution, escorting him to the Southampton docks, but he quit/lagged out just as we were approaching the pilots house.
And that's it.