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[oceandream]

Sorry for this topic
but i'm getting allot of trouble with guy about the same age as me
I know him for 7 years now
i broke his nose last year because he pissed me off

Now i want some suggestions on what i could or most do
I'm 17 so i make my own decisions now, But in this one i cannot find any  option on what i must do to aviod him.
I don't ask mom and dad because they only say, i must stay away from him, but he always comes after me
Now i feel if he lays 1 finger on me ,i will karate him onto the ground infront of his own parents wich i don't want to do 

Can anyone give me tips or suggestions because i really will beat him up heavely if he touches me 1 more time.

Kind Regards Ocean Dream

[The Ferry Man]

Do the adult thing and ignore him?

[Aad The Pirate]

Just "walk away". If he keeps following you keep polite and continue walking towards the next Police Station. Wanna bet he leaves you alone next time?

[Stuart2007]

You broke his nose once...


Remind him...

[oceandream]

@ TFM: Won't work...he keeps trying to lock me out
@ Aad: Good idea,  except that the nearest police station is 8 miles away -_-
@ Stuart : He knows, he doesn't care...keeps bothering with me

But i will try TFM's and Aads Idea again...too see if it will work this time

[The Ferry Man]

locks you out of where? Your house?

[Stuart2007]

Oceandream,

Square up to him- do it in front of his friends. Challenge him outright. Tell him to either fight you or eff off and leave you alone.

Be assertive with him, but not aggressive. Just make sure that HE throws the first punch.

On a slightly modified version of Aads comment, you could always report the incident to local Police. That way if you attack him to defend yourself, it'll go better for you.

[oceandream]

@ stuart : Good Idea , That i will do as soon as he comes to me

@ TFM: Not my house, He just pops up and starts doing all dumish things that annoy and ignite me

[2000]

Get a restraining order.

[Stuart2007]

2000, if he gets a restraining order (for starters if he doesn't know the legal procedure he will have to employ an expensive advisor) then he will be considered weak by others.

By all means, do not look for trouble, but if trouble looks for you use reasonable force to repel it. I doubt judges will easily grant an order without SUBSTANTIAL reasons... including police intervention previously.

[Third Mate]

Oh these situations are plain horrid.Have you guy's been friends at all for the past 7 years, or gotten into more serious arguments like these before or this is the first time?

Third