Hi Lemon .....
Welcome to the Forum.
Sorry to hear about the bad start you have had with SSE due to the "black screen" at the start up.
Please check this link below and see if it can help solve your problem. I trust your computer meets all the system requirements of SSE.
http://80.95.161.114/shipsim/forum/index.php/topic,20593.msg279599.html#msg279599
If you still continue having the same problem, please post again and you will certainly get assistance. I suggest you attach your "Dxdiag" as it will make it easier for a qualified person to look into your problem.
Your dxdiag can be obtained by following these instructions:
Click Start > Run. type in dxdiag and press Enter. You may see a popup asking about WHQL drivers, click Yes/Ok to proceed.
In the window that appears, click the button that says Save All Information, when the Save Dialog box appears, save the file to your desktop. To upload the file here, click Additional Options underneath the reply area and choose Browse near Attach. Browse to your desktop, click the file and click Open.
* Windows Vista users need to press the Windows Key + R to access the Run prompt.
Regards
vin_sun