Terry, the film's been out here for just over a month now! I too am a massive Trekkie, have been for since I was 3 apparently. I however was raised on TNG and DS9 (can recognise any episode of them within 30 seconds, just to give some perspective!), although I love TOS (not so keen on Voyager and Enterprise). Anyway, the new film (no spoilers).
Good in places, lots of action. However I found it totally senseless in others. I also found it very 'American'. One of the reasons that I've always loved Trek, and felt so passionate towards it, was because it was anything but 'American'. That's not to say I'm against the USA, but I'm sure you'll understand what I mean.
I'm now a fan of the new Enterprise (on the outside atleast!), as some of the shots of it in the film are breathtaking. There's some moments in the film that made me smile and think to myself 'yep, this is Star Trek'. But the overall feeling I left with at the end was with disappointment. Now having seen it twice since, both in iMax, I've come around to it a bit. The first 15 minutes are amazing, and I'll credit the last 10 minutes as being great if I'm honest. Overall though, if I had to sum it up from the point of view of a 'TNG' Trekkie (why can't we all just be one and the same?!):
"It's Trek Terry, but not as we know it."