But isn't someone's wedding (not even a member) that is going to happen in a while not allready very much off topic regarding the subjects normally discussed on this forum to begin with.. so that a bit of off-topicness isn't thát bad perhaps, specially since it's not really an arguement anyway, but a conversation about something that concerned yourself...?
Don't take it too hashly, mate.. only lighthearted banter that I see.